Ouch! Why are you biting me?
Puppies have small, sharp, pointed teeth until they are about 6 months old when these baby teeth are replaced by blunter adult teeth. Puppy teeth make any bites on our hairless, sensitive skin very painful. They don't mean to hurt us; they are just trying to get the play they need to grow and develop.
Play biting is normal for puppies
Play biting is normal for puppies. They are not being aggressive, but just asking you to play in the same way they used to play with their siblings. Wrestling and biting games are natural and educational between puppies. When puppies are separated from their littermates and taken to new homes, they will attempt to play with us, by biting at our hands, feet or clothing.
Are you sure it is just play?
Play biting is usually accompanied by a relaxed body, friendly expression and softly waving tail, and there is plenty of movement. Puppies usually try to play-bite when they are excited, so a common time for them to try it is when they are greeting you after an absence. The puppy may yip in excitement or play bow before they begin to play. The more excited a puppy becomes, the harder the bites. Squeals of anguish from owners, especially children, and much running around to try to escape the little crocodile will make the situation much worse as the puppy tries to join in with the new game.
Puppies will often play-bite whatever is nearest to them at the time they feel playful, whether that is hands, arms, clothing, legs or feet. Some puppies can play very vigorously, especially when older, even growling and leaping at their owners to grab chunks of clothing or skin when they get excited. However, if they are coming forward voluntarily rather than running away, it is usually still only puppy play and easy to solve with the right approach.
The solution to play biting lies in teaching your puppy to play with toys, rather than biting parts of our bodies. Successful toy play will teach your puppy to focus all their biting onto toys instead of people. Having plenty of long fluffy toys available whenever you interact, and playing in a way that is successful for both of you, will soon have your puppy looking for a toy to bite onto instead of you. Plenty of exercise and mental stimulation will also help, as will a satisfying diet.
Why do some puppies bite more than others?
- Practice makes perfectPuppies that have left the litter later than 8 weeks of age will have had more time to practice play-biting siblings. Or if you play lots of rough and tumble/wrestling type games with your puppy you may also find they have learned to enjoy play biting.
- Breed characteristicsSome breeds e.g. terriers, are bred to have a low pain threshold, and others e.g. bull breeds, have larger jaw muscles. This means they tend to bite harder when playing. And then there are the working type breeds. For these puppies, play biting can become problematic when they are bored and do not have ways to release their energy.
- Older pupsPlay biting often gets worse as puppies get older and approach their teenage stage (6 months). By this time they are well practiced and their jaws have strengthened, so bites become more frequent and harder.
Will my puppy grow out of play biting?
Play-biting isn’t a phase your puppy goes through and then grows out of. Unless you teach them how to play in an acceptable way, they will continue to play in the only way they know. Punishment will stop it but it will also cause confusion and upset, and your puppy will be reduced to a life with no play, which will have an adverse effect on your relationship together. It is, therefore, up to the humans in a puppy’s life to teach them how to play successfully with toys instead, and, eventually, to teach them some manners when playing so that the games are fun for everyone.
How to play successfully
- Puppies prefer soft fluffy toysYoung puppies usually prefer soft things that are similar to their littermates so large fluffy soft toys work particularly well. Long fluffy toys help to put a lot of distance between your hands and any accidental nips as they learn.
- Keep play sessions short and sweetWhen you have a few minutes for a game, or when you interact with your puppy when they are excited (such as when you have just come home after an absence), get down to your puppy’s level, present the toy and wriggle it on the floor. Keep the toy at floor level so your puppy does not have to jump to catch it (they can easily twist or injure themselves in their enthusiasm).
- Wriggle that toy!Move it erratically, sometimes slowly, then with little dashes of speed, wriggling it behind objects out of sight and then back into view. How fast you need to keep the toy moving depends on your puppy so experiment and find how fast you have to move the toy to keep their interest.
- Plenty of praiseFrequently put the toy within range of your puppy and pull it away slowly so they can chase and catch it. Tug gently (be careful of their teething mouth). Sometimes let them take it and ‘win’ it from you. When they do so, praise enthusiastically but don’t try to take it. Let them bring it to you and let the excitement subside so they drop it and you can take it and start the game again.
- Stop before puppy gets over excitedHave fun with your puppy and keep their interest until you are both a little tired. Then remove the toy and put it away for the next session. Always stop play before your puppy gets too excited and begins to lose control and bite you instead of the toy.
- Make sure toys are always availableHaving a toy in every room and in places where you will greet your puppy after being away will mean that you always have one to hand when you want to play or you can see that your puppy is in need of a game. For a calm, relaxed puppy, play in short, frequent sessions throughout the day.
Troubleshooting Puppy Play Biting
Puppies that are hungry can become agitated and excessively bitey as they attempt to make themselves feel better. Check with your vet that you are feeding a good quality diet that is sufficient for your puppy’s needs.
Many new owners forget to increase their puppy’s food rations as their puppy grows, especially if the puppy has a thick coat so they cannot easily see the body condition, with the result that the puppy gets desperate for more food.
Puppies left alone for too long or with too little to do or too little exercise can become over-excited during any interaction. This can cause them to play-bite intensely whenever they come into contact with someone.
While it is understandable that a puppy with too little to do makes the most of opportunities when someone appears, the excessive play-biting can have the effect of making owners less willing to interact, causing the problem to become worse.
The solution lies in finding more for the puppy to do, with more opportunities for off-lead free running exercise, games and training throughout the day so that energy is used up and the puppy becomes more calm and content.
Puppies that are over-tired will often begin to play-bite without thinking and their bites can get hard and careless.
Puppies frequently get over-tired if there are children in the household who may be keeping a very young puppy actively awake and engaged well past the time when it would normally have been resting and sleeping.
Tired puppies can get very irritable and snappy, just like over-tired children. The solution is to ensure your puppy gets frequent opportunities to sleep and rest throughout the day. This will usually result in softer mouthing and calmer play.
Some people will recommend yelping loudly when a puppy bites you. If the puppy is shy this is likely to worry them and afraid to try playing with humans again in the future. If the puppy is bold, they can become over-excited by the noise and may bite harder as a result. Either way, this technique rarely works. Instead, focus on praising them for biting toys so they learn how to play with humans in a way that we enjoy.
If a puppy is punished for trying to play-bite a person, he can become confused and distressed. A very young puppy is trying to learn human ways and learning that you become angry and aggressive when he invites you to play can have damaging repercussions for your future relationship.
The problem for the puppy is that they still need to find an outlet for their desire to play. If punishment has stopped them wanting to play with humans they will find other, less acceptable ways to play, such as chasing the children or cats, pouncing on shadows or digging in the garden.
So punishment may, in some cases, help prevent your puppy play biting, but the side effects often go unnoticed until they develop into a full-blown behaviour problem at a later date. Far better, instead, to teach your puppy to play with you with toys and, later, let him know that it hurts when he play bites your fingers by moving away and disengaging.
How can your Puppy School Tutor help?
On Week Two of your Puppy School course your tutor will coach you how to play successfully and also teach the ‘hands come to give not take’ exercise to avoid possessive aggression. Throughout your course, your tutor will offer help with shy puppies to prevent any aggression at a later date.
In some cases they may recommend a home visit to provide additional 121 support and guidance for you, your family and your puppy.
What to do when biting is not playful?
Puppies may bite if they are shy and do not want to be handled or picked up, or if their owners are telling them off and they become afraid. They may also bite when protecting possessions or food. This type of biting is very different from play biting. Puppies that bite for reasons other than play-biting will be still, stiff and tense when approached by humans. They will usually try to avoid hands instead of moving towards them.
In these cases it is best to seek professional help fast. Your tutor will be able to help you find an Animal Behaviour and Training Council (ABTC) registered Clinical Animal Behaviourist when further advice and support is needed.








