You got a puppy, and now your life has been turned upside down. You’re not getting much sleep because your puppy cries. Or you’ve been outside for the umpteenth time tonight in your PJs and wellies patiently waiting for your puppy to go to the toilet. Only, they wait to go until you’re back indoors and have locked the door before releasing the contents of their bladder exactly where you’ve just stepped.

Your adorable puppy has turned into a baby shark, complete with razor sharp teeth. And you can’t use the remote control anymore because it was used as a teething chew. 

Everyone in the house is feeling fractious; and it feels like you’re the only one doing any of the puppy chores, despite everyone promising they would help too. 

Does this sound familiar? 

The early months with a new puppy are really hard work. It often comes as a shock just how much of an impact a puppy can have on your lifestyle. But it does get easier. 

Here’s four common new puppy problems you may be experiencing.

Everyone’s heard of postnatal depression, but you may not have heard of post puppy depression. It’s something that many new dog owners experience as the hard work of raising a puppy takes its toll. A 2023 survey of 857 new puppy owners conducted by ManyPets found that 70% reported symptoms of anxiety, depression or both.  

Check out our Puppy Guides for tips on everything from toilet training to taking your pup outside for the first time. 

Sometimes dogs develop behavioural problems which can be stressful and make you feel like you can’t cope with them anymore. If your dog is displaying behaviour such as being aggressive towards people or other dogs, or around food, you can get help from a professional dog behaviourist.

If, after reading this, you still feel like you don’t want your puppy, you could start by contacting the breeder. A responsible breeder will want to make sure that their puppies have gone to the right home. They should be able to advise you about what to do if you feel that having a dog is not for you after all. 

You may even find that you feel better about life with your puppy after a conversation with the breeder and receiving some advice about how to address any challenges you may be experiencing. If, however, you still want to return your puppy, the breeder should advise you about what to do. 

If your circumstances have changed, and you need to give up your dog, it’s understandable that you may feel sad or guilty. The best thing you can do for your dog is make sure they are rehomed to a loving new home. 

If you want to give up your dog, there are a couple of options you could try: 

• Contact a dog rehoming centre. You could try one of the national charities such as Blue Cross, Dogs Trust, the RSPCA, SSPCA or USPCA, or a local rescue organisation. The Association of Dogs and Cats Homes is a useful resource to find a dog rehoming centre in your area.
• Contact a breed rescue organisation. You can find breed rescue societies for all breeds of dogs. Animal Rescuers is a helpful resource. For Cockapoos try the Cockapoo Club of Great Britain. For Labradoodles, try the Doodle Trust. 

If you are thinking about selling your dog privately, you’ll want to make sure that they go to a good home. 

It’s much better to rehome your dog via a reputable rescue organisation. They will carry out all the necessary checks to make sure that your dog is matched with the right home. 

However, if you plan to sell your dog to attract the right buyer, it’s important to be honest about why you’re selling and the type of home your dog would be most suited to. Provide as much information as you can about your dog’s temperament and behaviour, and encourage potential buyers to meet your dog more than once to make sure that your dog is right for them. 

For advice on how to sell a pet responsibly, read this guidance from Wood Green The Animals Charity.